The words: “The morning breaks; the shadows flee” are from a well known hymn. That is exactly how I feel right now in my life. The Lord has blessed me so much these past few of weeks. I am overwhelmed at the amount of love He has shown me. I worked really hard on writing a personal inventory of all of the hurtful and dark things that I had to deal with in my life. More so than that, I looked really objectively at all of those things, and I made sure that I wrote any and all ways that I may have contributed to the problems that I encountered, and or any bad choices that I made that would have lead me to those problems. In just about every incident that I wrote down, I had a hand in the negative outcome. This was a change for me. Over all of these years, I have been blaming other people for the bad things that happened to me, but this time, I took a personal look and I took responsibility for the things that I did that contributed to the darkness that I experienced. I had to surrender everything over to the Lord in order to do this.
This process was so freeing to me. I wrote all of that dark energy down, and I shared it with someone close to me. By so doing, that darkness couldn’t hide in the shadows of my mind and heart any longer. I exposed it for what it was. With the help of my Heavenly Father, I was able to pull all of that darkness into the light, and the light is dispelled it. I feel so much better now. I can see where I am, and I know where I am going. I look at the atonement of Jesus Christ now and I have a new found appreciation for it. I realize how much the Savior really loves me because He was willing to suffer for all of that darkness that I experienced in my life. I can now let it go and turn it over to Him because He took those things upon His Self and suffered so I wouldn’t have to.
All of those things have been written down, and now I only have one more thing to do and that is burn those pages. I will burn them as a symbol of the freedom that I have been given. Even though I haven’t burned the pages yet, I feel a freedom that I haven’t felt before. This weekend I went to get my hair done. I got my hair cut. She cut about 3 inches off of my head, and I tell you, it was very symbolic. As she began to cut my hair, each clip freed me of my past life. When she finished cutting, I looked down on the floor and looked at all of that hair and I realized that I finally am truly Kyeni. I can now move freely in the light. I choose to look forward and no longer look back. I will “press forward with a perfect brightness of hope.” I am on a new journey now, but it is Kyeni’s journey. I am a new person, so now it is all about me finding out who I am and who I choose to become.
Kyeni